Have respect and do not judge

I lost my cool today. I cant remember the last time I got angry. It must be years ago, but this creep got my goat.

I hired a local plumber to install a water heater. I like to support local independents. Right off, he told me that because I wasnt born again presumably in his church I was going to hell. I laughed and took it in stride. He was serious. Things went downhill. He did a sloppy job and had to come back. We had words. I ordered him off my property.

I have lived in this area for 15 years and respect everyones freedom to believe what they choose. I expect, and usually receive, the same respect. I dont proselytize, and I expect the same courtesy. Occasionally, we can share ideas and beliefs in a mutual and respectful manner. I never judge another person because I know our lives are complex and no one can understand anothers path.

I share this story because we all need to be reminded occasionally that we are on this earth to help each other. The plumber sincerely thought that he was helping me to find salvation as he saw it. What he was actually doing was judging me as he believed God would judge me. But he imposed his belief system on a stranger and client. It never occurred to him that I might have my own beliefs.

I believe we are on this earth to learn to love each other. We are here to develop tolerance and compassion. We are here to help and support each other amid our beautiful diversity. This is what I believe and this is how I love.

I apologize for losing my temper, though there are times when anger is appropriate.

Katie Lee Green

Abingdon, Va.

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Have respect and do not judge